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Posts in moving in together
Silence never truly solves a dispute....

I read and write a lot about communication. We could not co-exist on this planet today, as humans, if we did not communicate with one another in some way, for better or worse. Effective communication can bring about incredible results – growth, learning, love, compassion, community and cooperation, to name just a few. I also truly believe that much of the strife we currently face as communities, faith groups and even races is rooted in problems with communication.

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It CAN feel overwhelming....

For many people, separation is a process - sometimes longer, sometimes shorter - a period of genuine grief and many, many feelings and emotions.

I have been asked from time to time how long this process takes, from beginning to end - the psychological and emotional part of it. There truly is no one answer to this question because human being are unique and their reaction to a set of circumstances, including a separation, will likely be very individual. It can be months or even years.

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